Difficult Situations That Can Shake Your Confidence
When Things Go Wrong
If you have been asked to give a presentation and you are a perfectionist, my best advise to you is to “get over it”. The perfect presentation does not exist. That does not mean you should not strive for the best presentation possible, just don’t expect it. Something will happen and professional speakers know it and plan for it. Some even hope it happens! They want to try out some fun recovery techniques.
If you are using any technology during your presentation, you must prepare for the worst-case scenario. Computer and projector failures are the most common. Do you have a backup laptop and projector available? Having an audience participation activity in your pocket is a great way to keep the audience involved while you are swapping out equipment. Could you give your presentation without a computer if required? Always design your handouts so that they can be used if case your technology fails to perform.
Another technique used by professional speakers is to have a humorous comment ready for specific problems:
- The room is too hot - “I tried to lower the thermostat, but it’s already melted.”
- The room is too cold - “For handouts today we are passing out thermal blankets.”
- Spelling error in a visual - “Mark Twain said that there is a least five ways to spell any word.”
- You drop something - “This information is just too hot to handle.”
- The lights go out - “It appears that I need to shed more light on this subject.”
- A cell phone rings - “It’s probably just somebody reminding you to turn off your cell phone.”
- The high-lighter runs out of ink - “The magic has gone out of my marker.”
- The technology isn’t working - “They told me this would work at Radio Shack.”
- The microphone makes a rude noise - “That’s nothing. You should hear me sing!”
- Someone arrives after your presentation has begun - “Please come in. I love it when someone walks into one of my presentations. It’s so much better than when they walk out.”
Handling Audience Distractions
You may be faced with a situation where the audience may be distracted. Common distractions include audience members talking among themselves, a cell phone ringing, and noise from outside construction. Most speakers would find this disarming but professionals have developed techniques to manage these situations. Your goal is to get the audience to focus back to you and your presentation. An important rule to follow is move your body toward the distraction you can control and move your body away from the distraction that you can’t control.
Conversations and Cell Phones
Side conversations among audience members and cell phones ringing are common situations that as a presenter you can manage. Physically move your body toward the individual who is the offender. If necessary, stand right if front or next to the person and continue your presentation. Often your close presence alone will quiet the person. If the person(s) continue to engage in a conversation, continue your presentation and touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder. To really get their attention, when you are making an important point in you presentation, touch the individual and make eye contact.
Another technique is to move near the person and simply stop your presentation. The silence alone should conclude the conversation. Or you could ask the person(s) if they would be more comfortable taking the conversation outside the room. You could also simply ask the audience if the situation is acceptable to them. Finally, you could give the audience a short break and then discuss the situation with the individuals involved.
The type of presentation, audience members, and situation will dictate which of the above techniques you may employ.
Outside Distractions
For those situations you can’t control, such as construction noise, the best you can do is to acknowledge the situation and move away from the distraction. For example, if there is construction noise coming from the next room on the right side of your room, simply position yourself on the left side of your room. Hopefully, the audience will be able to hear you better and be less distracted.
Tell me about your favorite technique to manage difficult speaking situations.
Next week: How to Conduct the Question and Answer Session.